Melody Beattie Signed Stop Being Mean to Yourself Hardcover Self-Help Book 1998 Stop Being Mean to Yourself: A Story About Finding the True Meaning of Self-Love by Melody Beattie. This hardcover edition from HarperSanFrancisco features a personal inscription and signature by the author on the front flyleaf. A follow-up to the bestseller Codependent No More, this spiritual guide explores themes of self-kindness and personal growth. The dust jacket shows some light wear and a small stain on the top edge, while the internal pages remain clean. ISBN 0-06-251119-X.